Comments on: A birth mom’s view on adop­tive parent’s profiles http://www.thestoryofagirl.com/2009/10/30/a-birth-mom%e2%80%99s-view-on-adop%c2%adtive-parent%e2%80%99s-profiles/ who never seems to run out of things to say Thu, 18 Mar 2010 16:54:01 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: none http://www.thestoryofagirl.com/2009/10/30/a-birth-mom%e2%80%99s-view-on-adop%c2%adtive-parent%e2%80%99s-profiles/#comment-3970 none Tue, 19 Jan 2010 18:41:12 +0000 http://www.thestoryofagirl.com/?p=4296#comment-3970 Thank you for your beautifully written illustration of your experience as a birthmom! I am an AM in waiting and was so grateful to come across this site-what an encouragement. I liked the part about 'falling in love with the AP'. It is such a beautiful way to describe the amazing relationship that can happen, in particular between the BMOM and AMOM. I keep thinking how I will tell our daughter-to-be how we grew to love her BM and I am hoping and praying we will be able to maintain a relationship with her. She has become like a sister to me (we are only a few years apart in age) and I am feel so honored and happy that she has let me into her life. May God continue to bless you and thank you for your story! Thank you for your beautifully written illustration of your experience as a birthmom! I am an AM in waiting and was so grateful to come across this site-what an encouragement. I liked the part about ‘falling in love with the AP’. It is such a beautiful way to describe the amazing relationship that can happen, in particular between the BMOM and AMOM. I keep thinking how I will tell our daughter-to-be how we grew to love her BM and I am hoping and praying we will be able to maintain a relationship with her. She has become like a sister to me (we are only a few years apart in age) and I am feel so honored and happy that she has let me into her life.

May God continue to bless you and thank you for your story!

]]> By: Girl http://www.thestoryofagirl.com/2009/10/30/a-birth-mom%e2%80%99s-view-on-adop%c2%adtive-parent%e2%80%99s-profiles/#comment-3940 Girl Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:26:15 +0000 http://www.thestoryofagirl.com/?p=4296#comment-3940 I wanted to allow your comment to appear, especially because you went to all that effort to get an anonymous (and very clever) email address/ I am praying for you, Rolf? I think you have some underlying issues affecting the way you perceive things in reality. I personally think a Harvard degree would make a horrible match for my daiughter. I don't want a snobby boob, an elitist like you near her. Well educated and intelligence have nothing to do with each other. You can educate a fool for as long as he will pay to be taught! I think every child is special. (that's cute how you got creative with the snowflake thing, good job) Look at you witha ll that education and you still don't seem to be able to open your mind to other ideas and opinions for long enough to understand them. I bet the debate is over, on every issue in life for you? You solved em all, now what? Try growing as a person. I'm sorry I like to analyze people because of my degree, but I can't help whe it seenms such a classic case of lack of your own identity. I enjoy your opinion though. Although I think most parents think their child is special, it's not strange to think that. That is called love. And sorry but she is pretty special because she survived 7 months of hell in the womb in the form of many things, and today she is not only alive but a year ahead of other children her age. That is a miracle for a kid whos mom was on birth control in the 5th month of pregnancy. And other things you wouldn't know about either.... You caught me on a bad day bud. I usually let the responses speak for them selves. Any intelligent fool can make things bigger and more complex... It takes a touch of genius - and a lot of courage to move in the opposite direction. Albert E. (he wasn't any special snowflake either, I know) "Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts." I wanted to allow your comment to appear, especially because you went to all that effort to get an anonymous (and very clever) email address/ I am praying for you, Rolf? I think you have some underlying issues affecting the way you perceive things in reality. I personally think a Harvard degree would make a horrible match for my daiughter. I don’t want a snobby boob, an elitist like you near her. Well educated and intelligence have nothing to do with each other. You can educate a fool for as long as he will pay to be taught! I think every child is special. (that’s cute how you got creative with the snowflake thing, good job) Look at you witha ll that education and you still don’t seem to be able to open your mind to other ideas and opinions for long enough to understand them. I bet the debate is over, on every issue in life for you? You solved em all, now what? Try growing as a person. I’m sorry I like to analyze people because of my degree, but I can’t help whe it seenms such a classic case of lack of your own identity. I enjoy your opinion though. Although I think most parents think their child is special, it’s not strange to think that. That is called love. And sorry but she is pretty special because she survived 7 months of hell in the womb in the form of many things, and today she is not only alive but a year ahead of other children her age. That is a miracle for a kid whos mom was on birth control in the 5th month of pregnancy. And other things you wouldn’t know about either…. You caught me on a bad day bud. I usually let the responses speak for them selves.
Any intelligent fool can make things bigger and more complex… It takes a touch of genius – and a lot of courage to move in the opposite direction. Albert E. (he wasn’t any special snowflake either, I know)

“Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts.”

]]> By: hahaha http://www.thestoryofagirl.com/2009/10/30/a-birth-mom%e2%80%99s-view-on-adop%c2%adtive-parent%e2%80%99s-profiles/#comment-3938 hahaha Thu, 03 Dec 2009 01:26:35 +0000 http://www.thestoryofagirl.com/?p=4296#comment-3938 Yikes, this is extremely scary. Of course, not a big deal to you that the parents are well-educated...nope, they just have to be Christian and full of hate! Trust me, your kid is just like every other kid - not a special snowflake. Yikes, this is extremely scary. Of course, not a big deal to you that the parents are well-educated…nope, they just have to be Christian and full of hate! Trust me, your kid is just like every other kid – not a special snowflake.

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